Did you know that September is Pleasure your Mate Month? Oh yes, boys and girls, it’s time to give the gift of giving with your hands, lips, and other wonderful objects. It’s probably the best month of it all for fun in the bedroom.
How to pleasure your mate
Well, you probably already know exactly what to do what your significant other likes. However, sometimes the same thing gets a little boring. Here are some items to try out for a little extra sommin-sommin.
1. Nothing says “You’re mine and I’m going to take care of you” like a nice, long massage. Start from the temples down to those tired toes. Add a little massage oil to really give it good. Try some the KY heating Massage Oil on your lover for an extra touch. If you need advice on how to give a good massage, this article at So You Wanna is pretty darned good (and includes video).
2. Well, you know the old adage: the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. With the crazy pace of the world today, a home cooked meal is becoming rarer and rarer. So, why not make something really special? Now, you don’t have to get crazy with it! There are a lot of quick and easy recipes out there that look like they took hours to make. Check out one of my favorite food sites Allrecipes, where there is a listing of them (some take only 15 minutes!)
3. Do something completely random. What better way to spice things up than to do something so outside the norm for you! Pick up your sig-other and whisk him or her away on a surprise vacation. Maybe take him/her to a show. Go off to a carnival. Anything is possible (and cheaply, if you do it right).
4. Well, if you want to take pleasure to new heights, get the gift that keeps giving all night long.
I’m talking toys. Oh, toys…*sighs contentedly.* If you’re not sure of what exactly to get, you could always try out a nice toy kit. One of the most interesting of these kits I’ve seen is the Pipedream Orgasm kit. It has something for everyone! If you’re looking for the best of the best for just one, well I’ve read that the Fleshlights sleeves are a man’s best friend. For the ladies, the Cone is the new hotness when it comes to vibrating sex toys, though the cost is steep. I’d personally recommend the Rabbit!
Have fun with the one you love this month. I know I will *wink*
I’ve been working on completing some of my unfinished projects this weekend. As I posted before, We, The Night is finally ready (which I’m proud of). Now I’m working on a little something known as The End of the World Contingency Plan.
A long time ago, I mentioned to my friends that we needed to come up with a plan for the end of the world. I suggested that everyone bring something. My contribution? Well, in true E.D. style, I plan to bring the slip-and-slide and the lube. That’s right, boys and girls, I know how to party.
Anyway, I decided make blog about the list of things we’ll need at the end of the world. That’s where the contingency plan came from. So I made it and all that good stuff, but then I wound up stretching myself WAY too thin and stopped working on it completely. Hell, I stopped working on EVERYTHING by that point.
I don’t know what got the flame up my ass, but I’ve gotten back to work. The EWCP lives on!
This time, though, I’ve decided to go a new route with it. I was trying to do all this BS by myself, but now I’m looking for goods from others. I’m looking for stories about the end of the world, ideas on theories about the end of the world, what people would do with themselves in the event of the apocalypse…You get the idea. So if you have anything to contribute, just hit up the blog and I’ll be sure to put it on the website.
Anyway, get your shit in gear. The End of the World is going to be one hell of a ride. Look forward to it!